But how do you quantify chemistry on a dating site?You can’t – face to face interaction is the only way to see if sparks fly between the two of you.So much effort that a lot of men outsource their online dating.Think of it this way – if your car needs new brakes, you could watch a You Tube video and then do it yourself. Why get your hands dirty when it’s so much quicker and easier to bring in an expert? A virtual dating assistant does the hard part for you.
Scrolling through profiles, doggedly churning out message after message to the attractive women they want to date. The bad news is the average guy has to send out a whopping 114 messages to be guaranteed 1 response.There’s diamonds to be found, but you’ve got to put in some work to unearth them.The most popular dating app in the US, Tinder is the go-to choice for the younger set. The majority of users live in larger cities, but since it’s location based it makes sense to try it even if you live in a more remote area.Never has the old adage “You never get a second chance to make a first impression” been so important.If you’re not instantly catching her eye in a good way, she’s swiping left. Whether she’s looking for a husband or a one-night stand, she wants some sort of reassurance you’re taking online dating seriously.The dating pool isn’t as large as what you’ll find on Tinder, but Bumble attracts high quality women who are serious about finding a relationship.You’ll find a huge spectrum of women on Ok Cupid, from edgy “alternative” free spirits to 9-5 career-driven ambitious types.Most of the women on it are serious about meeting someone, so it’s a good place to spend your time. But it has one unique feature – only women can initiate contact.You’ll need strong photos to get her swiping right.You probably spend countless hours every week clicking through profiles and messaging attractive women on dating sites and apps.You get a response every now and again, but rarely from anyone you actually want to date.