But spare a thought for me, the girlfriend who has spent two years dealing with the repercussions of this apocryphal “common knowledge” that women loved big dicks. And I can get off with a smaller one just fine too, as long as it’s attached to a guy who knows what he’s doing.Our sex life was fraught for the first three months. But sometimes Ryan would get so caught up in his own mind that he would lose his erection. Which brings me to this: The Big Penis mythos is damaging to men with big penises as well — and the women who sleep with them. note: Other than Joe Manganiello's lonely, well-endowed character in , of course.] Many men with big dicks have been so thoroughly convinced that they were born with everything they need to make a woman scream with pleasure, that they often give themselves a “Good Sex” certificate, without ever taking any courses in the art of pleasure.Plus, the only penises he had to compare himself to were the ones he saw in porn, which are comically large.(Shudder.) Maybe don’t feel pity for a dude with an average-sized penis — women deal with plenty of body shaming themselves, so why can’t men take a little bit?About one out of every 15 times we have sex, I have to tell him to slow it down.If he were a quarter-inch longer, sex would be an ordeal.
And it doesn’t merit ruining sex for the rest of us.
Eventually, with a lot of patience and love from me, Ryan got over his insecurities, his penis started doing his bidding, and our sex life reached peak pleasure.
It helped him to go to a nudist beach, where men in their 50s lumber proudly around with penises so small that they barely poke out from under their beer bellies.
Next to his height of 6’5”, it looks smaller than it is. You should have thought of that before.” I’m just not into getting my cervix pounded with a hard object like it’s an avocado in a molcajete. I enjoy sex with Ryan because he’s attentive, respectful, creative about positions, passionate (his orgasms are spectacular), and has sinewy arm and chest muscles that are lovely to gaze at when he’s on top of me.
(The scientific literature on this is not definitive, but a couple of studies have found a correlation between height and penis length.) Since his penis doesn’t look perfectly proportional to his height, he has suffered for it. His penis size wasn’t even something I noticed at first.