and one "problem scenario" just keeps coming up OVER AND OVER... "The Genius Failure Paradox" is the tendency for UNUSUALLY intelligent men to have very LOW levels of success with women and dating.
Yes you do have to be serious sometimes, but in the early stages of dating, have some fun. Avoid the ‘ex’ conversation Talking about your ex is dangerous territory. Be sure YOU know the latest dating dos and don'ts.Back in the day — before women became more independent (thanks, women's rights movement! For the most part, dating was easier: A man courted a woman and both of them knew the end goal if courtship went well: marriage.You probably realized at a young age that you saw things differently, and thought differently than others in school...And you've probably realized that your smart mind gives you an advantage over others in many areas of life...But, if you’re looking to improve your dating skills, why not talk to a female friend.Discuss your last date, where you went, what you did and what you talked about.Don’t just put it on silent or vibrate, as you can still become distracted. If she knows that you’ve turned your phone off to focus entirely on the date, she’ll appreciate you’re taking the time to engage with her fully. Offer to pay Things have shifted and most women will assume that they are paying for their share of the bill. If you don’t contact her within a couple of days, you’ll seem like you couldn’t be bothered, or didn’t enjoy the date.On your first date, insist on treating her (although don’t be forceful). But, if she still wants to pay, suggest she gets the bill on your next date, if she wishes. Follow up correctly If you don’t want a second date, don’t say you’ll call her. The sooner you tell her what a great time you had, the better. Get feedback from a female friend Dating is not something we learn at school, we simply have to jump in the deep end and see how it goes.Many people may also be shy about their appearance.You may not be 6ft tall with a 6-pack, but it’s more attractive to a woman to show that you’re comfortable in your own skin and happy being you. Don’t do all the talking On your date, make sure you don’t do all the talking.