Also, I was surprised—not unpleasantly—by the whole Daddy phenomenon, never imagining that this old face and body would interest younger men. Or perhaps the internet is to blame—not for creating more people interested in intergenerational sex and/or romance, but for making it easier for people to anonymously seek out the kind of sex and kinds of sex partners they truly want.
You can probably guess what happened next: I was contacted by a 22-year-old man who revealed himself to be mature, intelligent, sweet, and, fatally, the physical type that arouses me most. Even if the initial looking is anonymous, DAD, discussing one's desires with others who share them helps people grow more comfortable with their desires and themselves—nothing melts away shame quite like knowing you're not alone—and more people are coming out about their non-normative sexual desires, partner preferences, relationship models, etc., than ever before.
Elsewhere on Bondage Blog: The way Ashley’s eyes are rolled back in her head just now, it almost looks like the nose hook is the only thing keeping her head up: Of course, in this moment Ashley has a lot going on that needs sensory processing: From Infernal Restraints.
Elsewhere on Bondage Blog: A grim reminder of slavery as it was practiced in Roman times: there exists an iron slave collar dug up from a site in Roman Africa that bears the inscription “ADVLTERA MERETRIX TENE QVIA FVGIVI DE BVLLA RG” or, as it is transcribed and translated, “I Am A Slutty Whore.
Because there are lots of examples of loving, lasting, non-creepy, non-foolish relationships between partners with significant age gaps out there. " (The reality of another person sleeping with your up-to-now-monogamous spouse can dredge up intense emotions, e.g., jealousy, sadness, anger, rage.
So enjoy this while it lasts, and if things start to get creepy—if he starts shopping for an apartment in Bucharest—then you'll have to pull the plug. Help Interested Straight Boy Understand Lust's Limitations 1. " (Considering your sign-off, HISBULL, either you've assumed he's a cuckold or he's told you he is one. If they've done this before and enjoyed it, you can jump right in.
And just as you don't want to take advantage of this young man, DAD, you don't want to be taken advantage of either.
That said, DAD, if the affections of a consenting adult 40-plus years your junior is your particular perk of aging, go ahead and enjoy it.
Keep your expectations realistic (a successful STR is likelier than a successful LTR), don't do anything stupid (see Father Clements, below), and reacquaint yourself with my constantly updated and revised Campsite Rule: When there's a significant age and/or experience gap, the older and/or more experienced person has a responsibility to leave the younger and/or less experienced person in better shape than they found them.
We associate age with power, but youth and beauty confer their own kinds of power, and that power can be abused—it can also lead seemingly sensible men to sign their life savings over to 24-year-old Romanian "models." For example: "A 79-year-old retired priest has been left heartbroken and homeless after his 24-year-old husband left him just after their home was put into his name," LGBTQ Nation reported.
"Philip Clements sold his home in Kent, England, for £214,750, before moving to Romania and purchasing an apartment for the couple to live in in Bucharest.