Society always sees men as losers, and women as misguided. Read the 175 comments so far on this post with fascinating perspective from both men and women.
One of the best excuses women tell me for not wanting to be with an attractive guy who has all she wants is that she’s afraid she won’t be able to hang on to him.
What is it about non-ideal situations which makes us keep carrying on, doing nothing to change?
If you hate your job, get laid with a nice severance check in hand!
There are countless posts online where women complain about their deadbeat boyfriends for never paying for anything, never buying them gifts, always playing video games all day long while still living at home in their parent’s basement, and never holding on to a job for more than a year to save their lives.
Yet, these women still latch on, hoping they’ll one day change their man for the better.
He probably is reasonably attractive and tells a good story about his current situation and his ambitions.
It’s too late, and eventually, the relationship fades. Above all else, I believe that the reason why we settle for someone suboptimal is because we believe we aren’t deserving of more. You don’t deserve to be mistreated or taken advantage of ever! Life isn’t worth living if there’s nobody special to share it with.
In retrospect, every woman who has gone out with a deadbeat loser realizes the case. You deserve to have someone love you back as much as you love them. I’d rather be a median waged person with a loved one than be a lonely billionaire in the long run.
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Of course, we all know women cheat on men as much as men cheat on women. As a woman, you want to financially depend on nobody but yourself.